Big Girl Panties

There are all these memes around on the Internet that say how us strong women need to just put on our big girl panties and do the hard things. 

But I have to say that for me, I feel like I have on my big girl panties all the time just to manage everyday things. So when extra things come up that I have to take care of…

well, it feels like I’m going full commando. 

And it’s really hard to be tough and put myself forward to make sure things happen that need to happen.