I’m here for the glitter cake.

I’m attracted to both men and women. Usually a little more toward men. One word I’ve heard that fits pretty well is heteroflexible.

Mostly I think that who a person chooses be intimate with and make a life with should be a nonissue as long as everyone is of age and consenting.

But we aren’t there yet.

So people come out. To say that it’s okay.

I’ve been sort of quietly out to certain friends for quite a while. As I get older I read more about how there’s weird stigmas around being bi. Even within the lgbtq+ community.

I didnt really realize I was bi, so much as I figured out that not everyone else is. I was having coffee with a friend one day a while back. We were talking about another lady in line a few people ahead of us. I don’t remember why, but I made a joke and said,”oh, she’s not my type.” My friend looked at me a bit puzzled and replied that she didnt have a type when it came to women.

I was really surprised by that.